Something to ponder again...

Just been reading on what Cahya wrote after he left for KL. Somehow, I'm happy that he learned something on our meeting up which I hope could improve on his relationship with Inge. I know relationships is not easy and never would be unless, each one of us take time to let free the other - on this, I find myself hard to give it wings- , to spend quality and not quantity together - another which for me hard to actually do it - and even to accept who the other person as who he/she is not because he/she looks like your ex(s)....

As I write, I couldn't help not to reflect on my last relationship. Indeed it is less than a month but somehow, the things that I wrote actually applies to both of us. Myself on the things that I hardly can do while he, on the latter one. I think, it is selfish on him or any person to go out with the opposite sex just because he/she looked or maybe act like your ex(s). It is selfish and very immature of that person to actually do that and it will hurt the other if he/she finds out. I know because I have been through it. I was the victim but somehow, it does how I take 'courtship' lightly. I think now, I should keep to the old-fashioned way of 'courtship' where the guy have to prove themselves that they are worthy of your love, care and concern...